RET BLOG

The essence of your self is pure love. It is our true self that knows all the answers even if you may not understand everything that is going on around you. By lovingly accepting any fears that keep you stuck, you allow that fear to be transformed into an expression of love. Feelings of fear are merely trying to get our attention in order to shine the light of Love upon them. Universal Love is always ready to assist and bring stronger feelings of love; so allow it into your life. It is our choice to enjoy life and be open to new perspectives to all situations presenting themselves. It is our choice to concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation. As we love and respect ourselves, the universe will return that love and respect. As we’re faced with various situations in life we can ask the question, “What would love do?” Deep down we all desire love. Loving yourself fully and accepting all parts of yourself, you’ll discover the beauty of your own grand love—a beauty beyond words. Love heals all.

By Melanie Gentzkow, MRET

www.rapideyetechnology.com

melanieann333@hotmail.com

I have been thinking a lot about loneliness. Again, I always watch what the Universe puts in front on me to consider. A recent participant said, “I am always alone. This deep ALONE comes on me and I want someone to love me and be a companion to me and go through life with me. Loneliness makes me sad.” I immediately thought of a dear friend who one day just would not ever speak to me again. No reason why, nothing happened–no fight, no warning. Just never a response again. I felt loneliness for this person.

It triggered hurt, abandoned, or rejected in the past, and while we can consciously convince ourselves that we are over it, the evidence of being lonely tells the true story. To me, loneliness is any emotion that is wrapped in anxiety or urgency. The anxiety creates a lustful craving that can never be satisfied. The urgency creates a fear that the very thing you are lusting for is in some way being denied or withheld from you. The key element of the fear and lust is that one is shut down to the very thing one wants. We are either unwilling or unable to receive it because of a fear of what it might do to us.

So, in the moment of that trigger to the past, I asked the participant, “How can you give the things you are lonely for to yourself? What is it you really want?” One cannot have love if their heart is shut down. We as people are collectively realizing that ALL experiences are bringing us back to ourselves. “How much love could we really stand?” If you stay in unawareness and in the belief that those people “OUT THERE” can give you what you need, you stay stuck. Go deeper in–not outside of yourself to find love. Our job is to get to know our DNA triggers through life experiences and anything that contains FEAR, ANXIETY, and LOSS. Those are here to teach us more fully how to open to our Soul’s Journey to the truth–and that is love. Ask the spirit of the Divine to fill you with love. When you feel it, remember to breathe. It will not kill you. Allow love to fill your entire being. If another person is ever there when you feel love–it is just icing–mirroring what is deep within you—whether anyone else is there or not, doing what YOU NEED or not–speaking to you or not. Find the deep well of love inside of you that responds to your slightest invitations. Keep open, be receptive and hear that everything you need is already inside you. That is a personal truth for me. So next times you are lonely, open and not close your heart even more and find the well of love that is infinite and join me in a swim!

Lynell Beckstron

Master Rapid Eye Technician and Trainer

www.l&lheartway.com

www.rapideyeinstitute.com

It is very easy for us to drop into our past or to project ourselves into the future. Only one of these three—past, present and future is real at any one time. That is- right now. Our memories of the past are very real, but we cannot live in them. Our expectations of the future are very real and important, but we cannot live in them, either. We can only live here, right now, and blend the three. Learn to view the whole time line at once.

Living only in the present time, is very challenging. Most of us actually create the path in front of us when we plan, expect, or create something. It is a blend of the past, present and future that will carry more of our spirit in our physical body than ever before. Most of us have been un-aware of just how much a part the salt water in us has played in this process. (Water is a conductor of energy).

We have been able to carry the spirit of our higher self in our physical body, largely due to the amount of water energy that we carry in our bodies. This water also brings us the grounding to the physical Earth and the connection to Spirit. Our emotional levels are actually attached to the physical water. Water is how we have been processing emotions through our body, and how we receive emotions from other people. Read the rest of this entry »

We are constantly getting an abundance of what we believe we deserve and what we desire.   In order to change what we are getting, we must first look at what we are sending.   When we believe in “lack” (not enough money, time, friends) consciousness, we get paid by not having enough.   Read the rest of this entry »